What He's Thinking When...: The Guys Told Us Everything - Part 3

…You are Breaking Up
 
"I feel absolutely devastated, even if I was the one who did it. I feel so lost and alone – just really confused, like I'm missing something important" – Pat, University of Illinois
 
"What is wrong with me that she didn't want to be with me?" – John, University of Missouri
 
"If she dumped me, then I'm just bummed and upset, wanting her back. If I dumped her, then I'm ready to play the field again" – Jordan, DePaul University
 
"In the middle of a break-up, I am always hoping that I don't cry and that it goes by quickly so I can have some time to myself to think about it" – Joe, University of Colorado - Boulder
 
"What is happening right now?" – Stan, University of San Diego
 
"What do I have to do to make her want to stay with me? I am just trying to get her from leaving so I can fix it" – Mark, Brown University
 
"She looks so hot…break-up sex?" – Kevin, Syracuse University
 
"I am usually the one who does the breaking up in relationships, and there is always a fraction of a second when I question if I'm doing the right thing" – Jason, Wheaton College
 
"I wish it didn't have to be this way" – Steve, University of Missouri
 
"If I did it or if she did, either way I just want it to be done quick so that I can get with my boys and move on" – Matt, University of Illinois
 
…You First Have Sex?
 
"What if she gets pregnant?" – Pat, University of Illinois
 
"I hope she enjoys this…because I know I'm going to" – John, University of Missouri
 
"I can't wait to get this started" – Jordan, DePaul University
 
"I wish I had worked out a little more – is she going to be judging me during this?" – Joe, University of Colorado - Boulder
 
"Hell yeah" – Stan, University of San Diego
 
"I wonder if I have to see her again" – Tim, Boston College
 
"I can't believe this is finally happening" – Kevin, Syracuse University
 
"Is she going to get really attached after this? Wait…am I?" – Jason, Wheaton College
 
"How am I going to compare to the other guys she has been with? How many has she been with?" – Steve, University of Missouri
 
"Is this a mistake?" – Matt, University of Illinois