Jess and Katie Take You on the Best Date Ever: The Timeline Of A Date - Part 2

STEP TWO: CHOOSING WHERE (to go) AND (what to) WEAR
We're English majors, but we acknowledge this step may require some math.

Solving Your Sartorial Conundrum:

• Factor in the nature of your outing, and outfit accordingly. No extra credit awarded for showing up to a baseball game in heels or a ski trip in a bikini
• If your entire outfit costs more than six times the cost of the date, you're probably overdressed (exception: if your date somehow involves no spending, don't go naked).

The Location Equation: Don't change his plans, but if you're the decider, keep this in mind.

• Bad ideas: Restaurants at which you can't pronounce the food, your parents' houses, overly romantic settings (too soon), the dining hall (it's cute if he offers to swipe you in, but … oh wait … it isn't.)
• Good ideas: mostly everywhere else on the planet
• Best idea: Baskin Robbins, the location of Barack and Michelle Obama's first date. And as Mr. Prez recalls, "I kissed her, and it tasted like chocolate." Moral of the story? Take your guy out for a mint chip sundae because then he will probably be president one day.

STEP THREE: MAY THE DATING BEGIN
First date, clean slate. Talking seems simple (… you do it every day), but there are a few topics you just shouldn't touch.

Major Mistakes:

• Talking about GPAs, salaries, weather, the stock market or anything that involves excessive digits; discussing past relationships (If Joseph Gordon-Levitt can't pull it off in 500 Days of Summer, you definitely can't), drinking to the point of bad drunkenness, talking shit about people.

MYTH: The guy always pays
It's the 21st century and we're in a recession. If you asked him out, you should at least offer to go halfsies. When he more than likely grabs the bill and says he has it covered, you can give a fake "Are you sure?" (… of course he's sure). It's the polite thing to do, and let's be real: it will rarely result in you opening your wallet.

STEP FOUR: HAPPY ENDINGS
It ain't over till it's over. So, um, when exactly is it over?

The Doorstep Moment

• If thinking about kissing him makes you throw up in your mouth a little: Don't. Just don't. That is, if you hated him. If you lacked chemistry but he was a nice guy who revealed no common cold or mono-like symptoms, just be nice and kiss him. It's ten seconds of your life but is probably the highlight of his week. Or year.
• If you want to make out but think your underwear looks better on you than the floor: We find the how-far-will-you-go tango with boys to be kind of hilarious and wonderful, because it reminds us that even in this cynical age, hope still exists. Oh, boys who think all they have to do to get lucky is hold our attention for more than 20 minutes! Anyway, do what you want; if he thinks you're a tease, it's his problem. Boys who judge girls end up sleeping alone (that, by the way, is also his problem).

MYTH: If you have sex on a first date, you won't get a second date
Jury is still out on whether this is wise advice from savvy daters who've been there or a lie spread by bitter girls who never get laid. You should not, however, justify first-date sex by saying to yourself, "It worked for Carrie and Big!" Because guess what? Carrie Bradshaw is NOT A REAL PERSON. That being said, we know a girl who knows a girl who ended up marrying the guy she screwed on a first date. So it could happen to you too. Oh, we should probably tell you to be safe. Don't turn a positive night into a positive … you get the idea. Basically, don't do this: