Days When You Feel Blah: 5 Ways to Perk Yourself Up - part 2 - women campus
Remember how thinking happy thoughts helped Peter Pan fly? It can work for you too. Well, kind of. According to a study by Shelley Taylor, of the University of California, and Jonathon Brown, of Southern Methodist University, positive thoughts are tied to happiness. The study found that people with high self-esteem, self-confidence, and who believe the future will bring them happiness, are more likely to be happy than people who think otherwise.
Gretchen Rubin of The Happiness Project says sometimes even pretending she's cheerful eventually makes her feel that way. "Feelings follow actions," she says.
Instead of dwelling on your sluggish mood, think about what you like about yourself, what you're proud of, what you've accomplished, and what you're looking forward to that week, or even that year. Try jotting it down in a quick list, and posting it above your desk. Who knew you were your own best mood-booster?
4. Call Your BFF
Spending time alone can certainly be a relief from a long day, but on an afternoon when you're feeling particularly down, spending time with your friends may be just what the doctor ordered. According to a study in the Journal of Happiness Studies, being alone had the lowest levels of happiness, while being with a friend had the highest. Any social activity, either active or passive had above average ratings.
If you're sitting alone in your apartment, or dorm room, and feeling gloomy, head to a friend's place, or invite a few friends over. Even if you're all just sitting on the couch chatting, you'll most likely feel happier during their visit, and after they leave, than before. Invite friends over to make dinner or go to the gym with you (two mood-boosters in one!). If you're swamped with work, call over someone from your class and study together.
5. Put on Chris Brown
You know that feeling you get when your new favorite song comes up on shuffle or the radio? Well, it can work the same magic on a down mood. According to a study in The Journal of Marketing, music can be a powerful stimulus for mood. The study says, "music acts on the nervous system like a key on a lock, activating brain processes with corresponding emotional reactions." Disregarding lyrics, and other elements to a song, fast music was tied to happier feelings than slower music. Songs in higher keys also related to feelings of happiness.
Turning up the volume on an upbeat song like Chris Brown's "YeahX3", or Taylor Swift's "Mean"to brighten your mood? What a way to pass the time.
- Try testing out a few of these tips next time you're feeling sluggish and see if you don't end the day with a smile on your face.
- Want more inspiration? Here are some of the Her Campus staffers' favorite ways to boost their mood:
- "The Royal Tenenbaums is my mood savior. I could be bawling my eyes out but if I lay down and pop in that movie it's like putting a baby in a vibrating chair: I'm instantly calmed." - Rebekah Meiser, Campus Correspondent, Ohio University
- "I make something sweet! I'm currently snowed in and I'm planning on making hot chocolate or blueberry muffins later today." – Hannah Orenstein, Editorial Intern, NYU
- "I go buy myself a new magazine and curl up in my bed and read it. That's a great way for me to shut out the world and escape for a while!" - Valentina Palladino,
- Contributing Writer, Syracuse University
- "I like to read a good book. Good books make everything better!" – Danai Kadzere, Editorial Intern, Harvard University
- "I wash and blow dry my hair, put on makeup and a fierce outfit (heels, of course), and leave my house to do nothing in particular. I pound the sidewalks like a supermodel and instantly I feel better. It always helps to have something to focus on instead of whatever's keeping me down!" – Elyssa Goodman, Style Editor, Carnegie Mellon University
- "I blast the music and jam out. It's a cure that never fails!" - Kaitlyn Schnell, Campus Correspondent, University of Wisconsin - Madison
- "I love putting on a face mask when I feel down or tired. It's an inexpensive and easy way to pamper myself, always wakes me up, and nothing makes me feel prettier than having clear, luminous skin!" - Nikki Fig, Editorial Intern, Emerson College
- "I like to either wear really cute underwear or a fuzzy pair of socks—or both!" – Stephanie Kaplan, Co-Founder, CEO & Editor-in-Chief
- " I love to just soak in a warm bubble bath! Not only is it refreshing, it is very relaxing and soothing." – Jaimee Swift, Campus Correspondent, Temple University
- "Once I get out of class on a sad, depressed day, I listen to "I'm Coming Out" by Diana Ross on my iPod REALLY loud." - Evangeline Spracklin, Campus Correspondent, University of Washington
- "I text my friends! Sounds simple but hearing about my friend's day which could be better than mine usually perks me up!" – Kristie Demers, Campus Correspondent, North Carolina State University
- "I do aromatherapy with things that are lavender-scented. I'll watch re-runs of Gilmore Girls. Maybe have a glass of wine. I'll pamper myself with a pedicure or do other things to beautify myself that I may have been neglecting." – Ally Karsyn, Contributing Writer, Dordt College
- "Nothing helps me feel more put together than painting my nails. There's just something about a fresh coat that gives me that extra polish and confidence. Plus, there's so many colors to choose from, and that makes it a lot of fun." – Sarah Ramirez, Campus Correspondent, Fordham University
What's your own never-fail way to boost your mood? Leave a comment!
Sources:
Gretchen Rubin, The Happiness Project
The influence of physical activity on mental well-being, Dr. Kenneth Fox
5 Foods to Boost Your Mood this Winter
Illusion and Well-being: A Social Psychological Perspective on Mental Health, by Shelley Taylor, Jonathon Brown
Happiness in Everyday Life: The Uses of Experience Sampling, The Journal of Happiness Studies, Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Jeremy Hunter
Mood, Music, and Marketing, The Journal of Marketing, Gordon Bruner II